~ Amanda

"Just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave..."

 / L 

~Night time is my time~

MSN: lilla_laura_palmer@home.se

I'm not afraid of being alone, nor do I feel like I have to be with someone.  I do however, like having a partner in crime, whether a girlfriend or just someone to hang with all the time, and it's nice that I have those kinds of friends here.  They make the not dating much more tolerable.

-cg

~ Amanda

"Just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave..."

I may have figured out the cure to my dating "issues". I need to date guys under 24, because as perfect as this last guy seemed ( 26,liked star trek, liked Twin Peaks, wanted to get into stargate, from iowa, was rediculously good looking) the age/maturity thing may be an issue. Just because I don't like being around large groups of strangers and get uncomfortable with being touched by people  I don't know, does not mean I am not ready to be in a relationship. It means that I don't like large crowds, being touched by strange people or crappy music. God I need to find good guys my age that aren't

a. on drugs

b. drinking half the time

c. idiots

d....wait I already said idiots

I know that I'm not exactly a dating guru, but who chooses a loud rock concert as a first date. Whatev..I'm over it. Just mildly annoyed that I wasted $12 + gas money on a concert that I didn't even enjoy.

 How would you like to come back to my tardis and take a look at my time vortex?   

It was wrong of him to make you pay for a concert you weren't interested in for a first date.  

The danger of men approaching their late twenties: some of them look at every girl they date as potential wife/brood mare material, and call it "maturity."  And if he hasn't outgrown the drinking/drugs, he probably won't (see: is a loser.) Otherwise, experienced older men can be fun as long as you keep them honest. 

 Harsh.  I don't understand drinking on dates.  It seems like the worst idea.  It is like asking one's self, "How can I make myself seem more uncomfortable, here?"

-cg

~ Amanda

"Just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave..."

I wasn't offended.  I have never been a binger, with the exception of festival weekends.  I blame the Canadians.  I do like a couple of beers while out watching a band though, as I assume most people do.  It's why bands play in bars, no?

-cg

 / L 

~Night time is my time~

MSN: lilla_laura_palmer@home.se

Hey, guys. Can I ask you some relationship advice?

Hmm tough one, are they still together ? If so don't remind them about it, IMO if the guy (assuming its a guy but you know what I mean!) says 'aw she's not all that bad' the girl (who could well hate you) may get annoyed with him cos she'll prob see it (as my gf def would) as you trying to interfere with their relationship all over again and this may get him in more trouble.

 If they are not then go ahead, more likely to be received at face value in that case.  

Has the North apologized to the South?  I don't think so.

Susan 

     
“Half a truth is often a great lie.”

Ben Franklin

Thanks for all your responses.

No, they're not together. I broke them up when we were kids, but they "still talk."

Well... the trying to date around my age thing didn't work out either. Woopdi fucking doo. Now I'm just kind of baffled and my self confidence (which I think has been coming along quite nicely) has taken a sever dip. Seriously! WTF  I hope going to rambo will cheer me up and hopefully it has enough violence in it to appease me for the night.

 How would you like to come back to my tardis and take a look at my time vortex?   

I was talking with someone about Myspace last night. He's met his last 3 long term girlfriends there. I met my bf of 3 years there. We decided you have the same odd of connecting with someone (in a biblical or emotional way) or meeting douches/basketcases as you do at a bar, and the notion that people are less fake in real life is a false sense of security.   Have either of you suave people had any luck there?